Hey there, fellow parents! So, you’ve got a toddler and a newborn on the way? First off, hats off to you—juggling a toddler and a newborn is like becoming a professional multitasker overnight. But don't sweat it, I'm here to share some friendly advice and a few laughs to help you get through these exciting (and occasionally exhausting) times. Let’s dive into what you’ll need and some handy tips for helping your toddler adjust to the new family dynamic.

5 Things You’ll Need Ready When You Come Home with a Newborn and a Toddler

1. Double the Diaper Supplies: Let’s be real, diapers are going to be your new best friend. Stock up on both toddler and newborn sizes, along with wipes and creams. Having a stash in multiple locations around the house will save you from those frantic searches.

2. Toddler Entertainment: Keep your toddler engaged with new toys, books, or activities. Busy bags, coloring books, and puzzle games can be lifesavers when you need to tend to the newborn.

3. Nursing/Feeding Station: Whether you’re breastfeeding or bottle-feeding, set up a comfy spot with everything you need. Think snacks, water, a good book or tablet for you, and maybe some toys for your toddler to keep them occupied.

4. Baby Gear for Two: Invest in a double stroller, a baby carrier, and possibly a second crib or toddler bed if you haven’t already. The stroller is great for walks, and the carrier lets you keep the newborn close while keeping your hands free for your toddler.

5. Help and Support: Arrange for some help during the first few weeks. This could be family, friends, or a postpartum doula. Even a few hours of extra hands can make a huge difference in managing both kiddos.

Tips and Advice for Settling a Toddler with a Newborn at Home

1. Involve Your Toddler: Make your toddler feel included in caring for the baby. Simple tasks like fetching diapers or singing to the baby can make them feel important and involved.

2. One-on-One Time: Spend quality time with your toddler. Even just 10-15 minutes of focused attention can reassure them that they’re still special to you. Maybe a quick game, a short story, or a cuddle session.

3. Talk About the Baby: Before the baby arrives, talk to your toddler about what to expect. Use age-appropriate books or videos to explain that a new sibling is on the way and how things might change.

4. Routine Matters: Try to keep your toddler’s routine as consistent as possible. Familiarity provides comfort, and having a predictable schedule can help them feel secure amidst the changes.

5. Praise and Patience: Praise your toddler for being a great big sibling. Positive reinforcement can go a long way. And remember to be patient—there will be moments of jealousy and acting out, and that's totally normal.

A Little Humor to Keep Things Light

Okay, quick story—when my second was born, my toddler decided the baby needed a “hat” and proceeded to place a clean diaper on their head. I laughed so hard I cried! Moments like these, while chaotic, are precious. So, when your toddler decides the baby needs a teddy bear mountain to sleep under or offers them their half-eaten cookie, just roll with it. These are the memories you'll treasure.

Alright, folks, those are my tips and essentials. What about you? Do you have any hilarious or heartwarming stories about introducing a toddler to a newborn? Share in the comments below—I'd love to hear from you!

Remember, you’ve got this, and every day is a new adventure. Enjoy the ride!